BE A LITTLE KINDER THAN NECESSARY
The above was recommended in a children's book ; Wonder, by R.J. Palacio, that I read recently. The book is about a boy with a severe craniofacial anomoly. In other words, his face is very distorted, startlingly so. The boy is teased and the book portrays how he and his family, friends and classmates deal with his different appearance. The boy at one point wishes every day were holloween so that everyone could wear a mask everyday. This book reminded me of the short film ; "Butterfly Circus" where a man born with no limbs learns how to believe in himself and no longer feel ashamed of himself. In this film, the limbless man is called "magnificent."" I asked my son about this and he said that "we are all magnificent."
How often do we lose sight of this regarding ourselves and others? Do many of us even believe that we are magnificent? There is something wonderful about all living things, including us. Maybe we are able to see this about ourselves and others when we are in the presence of people who are different. Maybe if we all are a little kinder than necessary, we will be able to see how wonderful we are.



